DATING WHILE IN COLLEGE. GOOD IDEA OR BAD IDEA? #6

Dating in college could be a good or bad it all depend on the individuals. If you take a survey a lot of college students past and present enjoy there college dating experience, some even end up marrying.

I am not saying that everyone is going to be that lucky, because sometimes things do turn out bad. Dating in college play by a different rules, meaning that the college campus might be big or small but you might run into each other if the relationship goes sour.

There are pros and cons in college dating:

PROS

College dating can be fun and also it is a supporting system, if you are away from home for the first time it can be lonely, you got to new make friends to do all kind of things such as going to the movie, studying and even doing your laundry. By have a girlfriend/boyfriend you got someone who got your back.

When it come studying you need help even though you might not like it but if you have some one pushing you that a good thing, because at times we might not want to do it.

We all need companionship and I do not mean just talking, because most of our sexual experience start in college.

Networking might not sound like it belong here but if you think about it we had a girlfriend/boyfriend who help us getting into a job or give us a lead to a job.

If you are lucky marriage is the prize with your college girlfriend/boyfriend.

CONS

If your dating experience turns bad you could end up with a stalker so we got to be careful who we date in college.

Sexual harassment/physical abuse like everything some time our feelings get hurt and in turn we want that person to feel the same pain, so we turn to violence and since we are in college that a dangerous combination.

Couple months ago there was a murder on a college campus, a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship went bad and this is the worse that can happen.

My advice to anyone who want to date in college, try and date someone not in your class because being around each other can wear thin at times. Remember the old saying 'Buyer be wear' keep that in mind when dating because, the same thing that bring a smile on your face or the nice feeling like you walking on cloud 9 can bring a frown or a rain cloud in your life.